Frequently Asked Questions
- Is the massage space private?
- Do I undress completely?
- What if I have never been massaged by a man before?
- How long will a session last?
- Can I shower before or after my massage therapy?
- Do you use natural or scented oils?
- Will the massage be tailored to suit me?
- Do I have to book well in advance?
- Will I be contacted by you over the phone?
- Can I complete my assessment form in advance to save time?
- Do you offer OTHER TYPES of THERAPY??
- Is your service available to everyone?
- I am worried I might get an erection during the massage?
- Can you tell me more about your COUNSELLING service?
Q. Is the massage space private?
A. The massage therapy room is completely private and discreet. Don't worry if you are nervous about your first massage, as Tim will put you at ease, explain everything and answer any questions you may have.
Q. Do I undress completely?
A. Some clients prefer to be nude for relaxation and ease of treatment. However, you can choose to keep your underwear on or be draped with towels if this is more comfortable for you.
Q. What if I have never been massaged by a man before?
A. All massages require a respect for each other's boundaries. Many of my clients are straight men who have no experience of touch from another man. Others have a strong bisexual or gay identity. Whatever your sexuality or massage experience, Tim can help advise on which massage will suit you.
Q. How long will a session last?
A. A Swedish, Deep Tissue or Naturist massage session is usually 1 hour. This includes your undressing and dressing time. For new clients a free initial assessment will be made which usually takes 5 - 10 minutes to complete. Your massage time only starts once the assessment is complete. If you want an extended massage session, 90 minute or 2 hour massages are also available.
Q. Can I shower before or after my massage therapy?
A. Generally, it is expected that you will arrive clean and ready for your massage session. Showering afterwards is usually not necessary as the massage oil is well absorbed by the body - a clean hand-towel is available to wipe off any excess oil. Clients wishing to shower before or after massages will be charged a small additional FEE. Showering is undertaken WITHIN your massage time. Shower fees are £3 for a single shower; £5 if shower twice in a visit.
Q. Do you use natural or scented oils?
A. The oil I use is a natural light vegetable oil. For some massages this is enhanced by essential oils such as Lavender. The oil is usually well absorbed by the body and a hand towel is available if you wish to towel off any excess oil.
Q. Will the massage be tailored to suit me?
A. Yes, Tim will tailor the massage to suit your individual needs and wishes. The level of relaxation OR therapeutic deep tissue work OR lighter or more sensual touch varies from client to client and massage to massage,depending on your requirements as a client.
Q. Do I have to book well in advance?
A. Since Tim is a solo therapist who cannot answer the telephone when working with clients, a new online booking system has been set up. This allows you to select your massage choice and book your session on an available day and time which suits you. Full instructions are on the bookings page. Generally, appointments require at least 24 hours notice, but if you are able to reach Tim by phone and an appointment is available on the day, then this can be arranged.
Q. Will I be contacted by you over the phone?
A. As some clients do not wish to receive return calls, Tim will only return your call if you have left a voice mail or text message indicating that you wish me to get in contact.
Q. Can I complete my assessment form in advance to save time?
A. Yes. If you want to complete your assessment form in advance, please download it, complete it and bring it with you for your 1st massage.
Q. Do you offer OTHER TYPES of THERAPY??
A. Yes. I offer other massages, e.g. Chakra massage. And sessions which are more focussed on relaxation and breathing. I also offer COUNSELLING, a safe, confidential and accepting service for those who want to change their lives with the help of talking therapy. For more information, please email Tim in the first instance.
Q. Is your service available to everyone?
A. Massage for Men is a massage service available to all Men regardless of their Age, Sexuality, Race or Religion. Many of my clients are staight men. Others are gay or bisexual or bi-curious. If any of these areas raise questions for you about receiving massage please contact me and I will be happy to discuss your concerns.
Q. I am worried I might get an erection during the massage?
A. You don't need to worry. Massage is a touch therapy and sometimes when a man's body is deeply relaxed an erection naturally occurs. If this happens, it is not an issue and need not cause you concern.
Q. Can you tell me more about your COUNSELLING service?
A. If you want to find out more about the COUNSELLING service which Tim provides, you can visit the website www.mantomancounselling.com